The phrase “I love you” can be extremely toxic, when used by the Ego for the purpose of manipulation and control. I remember as children we “learned” the power of this little phrase right quickly to try and manipulate our parents to get us what we want!
And there are many adults today, who use those magical 3 words (quite unconsciously) to try and manipulate another person into getting from them what they want.
“I love you” most of the time means “I need you to be a certain way for me”, and I “need you” to be a certain way so I can feel OK. That is not love, that is unhealed trauma.
In contrast, the frequency of pure love (the kind we associate with God) will make you feel SAFE and free to be you. It makes no demands of you, in fact in it’s perception you are perfect. This frequency will make you open up like a lotus flower.
I was reminiscing about something my ‘Twin’ said in our last conversation… she said “I want to dissolve all lies in my life”.
And this morning it hit me… she thinks in terms of lies = false beliefs, but there is only ONE lie to dissolve… it’s the illusion that our Ego has created. (ie: That there is a point to any of this.)
So, what is required to dissolve all lies, is to dissolve Ego’s lens.
An entry from 2 years ago, but I feel it is still relevant! This is just an off the cuff talk, I don’t know if it will make a lot of sense as I am bumbling around quite a bit… if nothing else, just enjoy the energy. 😊
You know, it sounds ironic to people when I say that I needed to “set aside God” as the standard to “live up to” - which simply was unattainable! And that is what made me such a poor Christian.
And in order to find ABILITY to let Love flourish within me, I needed to “clear the space” that God occupied all my life. It may not make a lot of sense when people hear me say this; in fact I am sure the amygdala registers this as a terrifying thought initially… but in order to be “able” you have to let go of the “disabling” belief in God to do everything for you and start believing in your Self.
It wasn’t until I gave myself enough credit that I could actually be a capable and loving person, that I became that quite naturally. It’s all in what we believe about ourselves.
A person can only live up to their potential to the degree of their self identity. And a human being doesn’t rank very high on the totem pole in our consciousness.
That’s why human identity only produces more of the same… “low life”, because we think too “lowly” of ourselves.
What kind of person might you become, if you were to live up to the identity of God or Divinity? Think about it!